Intimacy, Closeness, and Friendship

The closer we get to people, the more is required of us. Intimacy doesn't always feel "good." It's harder to hide our darkness from others the closer we get. True intimacy requires that we SEE our darkness and OWN that darkness, instead of blaming it on the other. And that we be willing to see that others are a reflection of who we are. Too many people just cut someone lose at the first sign of conflict or disagreement, without bothering to work it through -- which requires some effort. Real intimacy calls for effort and nurturing; otherwise relationships can easily fade away.

So do what you can to nurture your friendships. Our lives on earth are so fleeting. We may think we have lots of time, but we don't. Look at where you are holding onto darkness in the form of hurt, blame, and judgment. Do not harbor resentments and old hurts. Left unresolved, they turn into bitterness, and bitterness is much harder to resolve and let go of. 

If someone chooses to walk out of your life, gently let them go. Feel your pain. When you do, all the angels will shower you with raindrops of love. That pain will blossom into a beautiful flower, a mandala of love. You will come to understand that God is your best friend. Angels are always with you. You are never alone, even when you think you are.