Dawn is just stealing over the horizon, bringing daylight to this part of the world. I enjoy the stillness of early morning, before it is fully light, alone with only the silence. Being able to be alone with only ourself is important. Otherwise, we will always be pulling at someone to fill our loneliness. We will be needy and clingy. We will see others, not as who they are, but as someone to fill our loneliness. We will pull energy from the very people we are supposed to love. We will add to their burden.
This is so meaningful, so simple and so deep. We add to the burden of others when we do not handle our own loneliness.
ReplyDeleteI think it is o.k. to be needy to somebody and I am very happy with my partnership.
ReplyDeleteAll my life I was living alone and afraid to be with others.
It is a success for me to share my life.
Also I know it is important to have also a seperate flat and to be alone two days a week.
I think we have times to be with each others and times to be alone. It changes in life.
Sanatha
yes, that is an accomplishment for you Sanatha. Learning how to be in harmony with others is an important part of life. I am glad your partnership brings you joy. Human beings are an interconnected species.
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