Tuesday, September 17, 2013
Sunday, September 8, 2013
Tuesday, September 3, 2013
Male and Female Relationships
Dearest Students,
Here is a copy of an interchange I had with a student. I have removed identifying information, as well as asked her permission to share. Perhaps you will find it helpful in your own life and relationships. She was concerned that her husband was not willing to listen to her feelings, or talk about his own. We exchanged a few emails, and here is my last email to her:
Dear Student,
If you are working on yourself in ways that your husband is not, you can’t expect him to be at the same place you are. Keep working on yourself and asking that the light keep growing within you. In a male-female relationship, there are times when all the woman can do is hold the light for the man — which she can do when the man is loving and supportive towards her in other ways (as your husband is) even if they aren’t the ways she wants.
Here is a copy of an interchange I had with a student. I have removed identifying information, as well as asked her permission to share. Perhaps you will find it helpful in your own life and relationships. She was concerned that her husband was not willing to listen to her feelings, or talk about his own. We exchanged a few emails, and here is my last email to her:
Dear Student,
If you are working on yourself in ways that your husband is not, you can’t expect him to be at the same place you are. Keep working on yourself and asking that the light keep growing within you. In a male-female relationship, there are times when all the woman can do is hold the light for the man — which she can do when the man is loving and supportive towards her in other ways (as your husband is) even if they aren’t the ways she wants.
FREE CONFERENCE CALL RECORDING - HARMONIOUS RELATIONSHIPS
Hi Everyone, The first Free Conference Call has been completed and you may listen to part of that call now. I did not record the entire discussion this time. Maybe next time. We'll see. If you have a partner, you may find it helpful to listen to this recorded message together. If you are with other students, you might want to listen together and use it as a basis for discussion.
Here are the instructions for listening to the recorded message: FREEDOM'S JUST ANOTHER WORD FOR NOTHING LEFT TO LOSE:
Dial:
1 209-255-1099
Enter Access Code: 521157#
When prompted, enter the number: 3
Let me know if you have any problems.
Here are the instructions for listening to the recorded message: FREEDOM'S JUST ANOTHER WORD FOR NOTHING LEFT TO LOSE:
Dial:
1 209-255-1099
Enter Access Code: 521157#
When prompted, enter the number: 3
Let me know if you have any problems.
Tuesday, August 27, 2013
FREE CONFERENCE CALL FOR REGISTERED STUDENTS
Join like-minded individuals seeking to expand their spiritual vision and know Truth.
Dearest Students,
At last I am able to begin Free Conference Calls for Students. The first call will be this Saturday morning at 8:00 Pacific Coast time. This will be 5:00 in the evening for those of you living in Switzerland or Germany, and 11:00 a.m. for the East Coast. For other countries and states, please check your time.
The topic is one that is important to everyone. HARMONIOUS RELATIONSHIPS. I will begin by reading a short excerpt from my (unpublished) book, The Clear and Simple Way.
You are welcome to share and partcipate with questions and comments, or just listen. If you are a student with a partner, your partner may participate free also. I look forward to our First Free Conference Call for Currently Registered Students in The Clear and Simple Way School.
http://www.theclearandsimpleway.com/
Here is how the conference call works.
1. Call this number: 1 209 255 1000
This call is free in the United States. If you are calling from another country, you must dial the country code. You may incur charges for calling, depending upon where you live.
2. You will hear a recording that will prompt you to dial this access number: 521157#
You must dial # after the number. In the US this is called the ‘pound sign’”
Once connected to the free conference call, you will be able to talk and listen.
3. Here is an important instruction. When you are only listening, you MUST MUTE your phone by Pushing star * and then the number 6
* 6 for Mute/Unmute - caller controlled muting
Otherwise, there will be too much background noise, and no one will be able to hear. You will ALSO push *6 when you want to UNMUTE your call - so that you can speak and be heard by everyone.
I will also record the entire call, so you can call and listen to it at another time, if you missed it, or if you just want to listen again.
For questions, please feel free to contact me by email or phone: 323-557-8934
Thanks! Looking forward to talking with you. Much love!
Dearest Students,
At last I am able to begin Free Conference Calls for Students. The first call will be this Saturday morning at 8:00 Pacific Coast time. This will be 5:00 in the evening for those of you living in Switzerland or Germany, and 11:00 a.m. for the East Coast. For other countries and states, please check your time.
The topic is one that is important to everyone. HARMONIOUS RELATIONSHIPS. I will begin by reading a short excerpt from my (unpublished) book, The Clear and Simple Way.
You are welcome to share and partcipate with questions and comments, or just listen. If you are a student with a partner, your partner may participate free also. I look forward to our First Free Conference Call for Currently Registered Students in The Clear and Simple Way School.
http://www.theclearandsimpleway.com/
Here is how the conference call works.
1. Call this number: 1 209 255 1000
This call is free in the United States. If you are calling from another country, you must dial the country code. You may incur charges for calling, depending upon where you live.
2. You will hear a recording that will prompt you to dial this access number: 521157#
You must dial # after the number. In the US this is called the ‘pound sign’”
Once connected to the free conference call, you will be able to talk and listen.
3. Here is an important instruction. When you are only listening, you MUST MUTE your phone by Pushing star * and then the number 6
* 6 for Mute/Unmute - caller controlled muting
Otherwise, there will be too much background noise, and no one will be able to hear. You will ALSO push *6 when you want to UNMUTE your call - so that you can speak and be heard by everyone.
I will also record the entire call, so you can call and listen to it at another time, if you missed it, or if you just want to listen again.
For questions, please feel free to contact me by email or phone: 323-557-8934
Thanks! Looking forward to talking with you. Much love!
Thursday, August 8, 2013
Sunday, July 28, 2013
And
I will show you that there is no imperfection in the present, and can
be none in the future. And I will show you that whatever happens to
anybody, it may be turned to beautiful results.
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Dear Teacher ,
thank you for this beautiful daily message.It gives me Hope, makes me smile and so happy to be a part of this journey.
ursula
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Dear Teacher ,
thank you for this beautiful daily message.It gives me Hope, makes me smile and so happy to be a part of this journey.
ursula
Thursday, July 25, 2013
West Coast Retreat in Altadena, California August 10 & 11, 2013
West Coast Retreat
Save the dates!
August 10, 10:00 am - 5:00 pm
August 11, 10:00 am - 5:00 pm
Altadena, CA
$160 includes 2 days + organic vegetarian lunches
$150 for students and anyone who has ever attended a past clear & simple way event.
Save the dates!
August 10, 10:00 am - 5:00 pm
August 11, 10:00 am - 5:00 pm
Altadena, CA
$160 includes 2 days + organic vegetarian lunches
$150 for students and anyone who has ever attended a past clear & simple way event.
Saturday, July 20, 2013
"Angels of Zug, Switzerland"
This was taken in Zug, Switzerland, near Oberwil, where I will be giving a
seminar, talk, and readings, as I do each year. This year I will be there
from September 25 to October 1. Contact Martin Meier for more information:
Martin Meier
Oberwiler Kurse
Artherstrasse 112, P.O. Box 51
CH-6317 Oberwil
Tel. +41 41 711 92 68
www.oberwilerkurse.ch
martin@oberwilerkurse.ch
seminar, talk, and readings, as I do each year. This year I will be there
from September 25 to October 1. Contact Martin Meier for more information:
Martin Meier
Oberwiler Kurse
Artherstrasse 112, P.O. Box 51
CH-6317 Oberwil
Tel. +41 41 711 92 68
www.oberwilerkurse.ch
martin@oberwilerkurse.ch
Friday, July 19, 2013
Hello from California
After what seems like a long time, I am back in California. The East Coast Retreat was great. Here I will share with you some comments received from participants, and some comments from me!
Monday, July 8, 2013
Happy Travels
Indira, I know you are flying today, Indira. Happy travels and safe landing. I look forward to reading my new lesson when it arrives, if you have time to send it before you leave. Otherwise, I understand. The last lesson was just great. I have been working on detaching from my life. For newer students, you have great lessons waiting for you in the future that will be the present by the time you get there (as our teacher says). And also happy travels to Ursula. Also, hope your computer is easily repaired teacher, so we can go back to email messages too. Those are the gems that make my day.
Thursday, July 4, 2013
Happy 4th of July Everyone, wherever you live, may you be free...
Thanks for your new posts and pictures that make our classroom so bright and colorful, Indira. I am grateful for the angels lessons that support me each day, the angel messages, and this classroom. I haven't written in awhile, but I visit often. Monika's post today made me want to write something, to express support for Sebastian, and to express gratitude that this classroom is always open, always here present. Happy 4th of July everyone.
support
Dear classmates.
Sebastian, the 19 year old son of Christel (our classmate) - and my god child - is ill. He has an illness where the spleen destoys the trombozyten ( I cannot find the english word). It is an autoimmune illness. He has to go to hospital today.
Sebastian is asking for your loving .... healing support.
Thank you a lot
Monika
Sebastian, the 19 year old son of Christel (our classmate) - and my god child - is ill. He has an illness where the spleen destoys the trombozyten ( I cannot find the english word). It is an autoimmune illness. He has to go to hospital today.
Sebastian is asking for your loving .... healing support.
Thank you a lot
Monika
Saturday, June 29, 2013
The Earth is our Mother
(The) Earth Is Our Mother
The Earth is our Mother, we must take care of her
The Earth in our Mother, we must take care of her
Chorus:
The Earth in our Mother, we must take care of her
Chorus:
Hey Yanna Ho Yanna Hey Yon Yon, Hey Yanna Ho Yanna Hey Yon Yon
Her sacred ground we walk upon, with every step we take (x2)
The Earth is our Mother, she will take care of us (x2)
Alternate verses:
Chorus: Hey Yanna Ho Yanna Hey Yon Yon, Hey Yanna Ho Yanna Hey Yon Yon
Her sacred ground we walk upon, with every step we take (x2)
The Earth is our Mother, she will take care of us (x2)
Alternate verses:
Chorus: Hey Yanna Ho Yanna Hey Yon Yon, Hey Yanna Ho Yanna Hey Yon Yon
or:
Unite my people be as one be as one, Unite my people, be as one, be as one
The Sky is our Father, we will take care of him (x2)
The Sea is our Sister, we will take care of her (x2)
The Forest is our Brother, we will take care of him (x2) etc.. Traditional, Hopi
This also has a tune which maybe you can find, should you like to chant it.
Friday, June 28, 2013
Thursday, June 27, 2013
Tuesday, June 25, 2013
Imagine the most beautiful home possible in your heart
Create an Inner Sanctuary
Imagine the most beautiful Home within your Heart
Feel the soft air
Inhale the scent of the flowers
Feel the green grass on your bare feet
See all the colors of nature
Even the fairy spirits
Relax into the Peace.
Tuesday, May 28, 2013
Email to client...
Dear Students, Today I am posting an email I sent to one of my female clients, who has just separated from her husband. I have changed identifying information, to respect confidentiality. I think by reading it, you can learn a great deal. I have kept the words to her soft, so they can be heard. She is not a student, so she does not have the same level of understanding that students achieve over time, but she is a very long term client. Here is the email:
Dearest -----
You have made the physical separation from your husband, now you must make the psychological separation, which can only happen inside you. For so long you have defined yourself in relation to your husband. Over time, that became a definition that was painful to you, and you sought to remove yourself from that pain.
Stay clear that the ego will seek to continue to keep you in pain. That is what ego does. Ego is a pain machine.
Watch the issues of boundaries. Instead of constantly saying that he is overstepping your boundaries, simply, clearly state what you want. To yourself. To him. I’d just leave out the word boundaries, if you can.
Boundaries can be an offensive and defensive word. You needed to use it when you were making your move and getting stronger. Now you can just be an adult and clearly state - "This is what I want. This is what I choose. This is what I am doing. I do not want that. I do not choose that. Not right now, please. Maybe later. NO. Yes."
These are all good statements for you to consider. You can just say, no. You can say, not now. You can say, no, thank you. You can say, I don’t want to. You can say, Can you please tell me what you mean, because I don’t understand. You can say, yes. You can say, I need time to think about that. You can say, I can’t answer that right now. You can say, I am feeling uncomfortable and need to be with my own energy right now, so I can deal with my feelings.
These are good “I” statements. You will find your own, the more you turn within.
“I” statements will help you go within to find out what you are feeling and thinking. “I” statements tend to be less combative, less offensive, less defensive, less confusing.
Keep in mind, you both love your children. So far your husband has been supportive of your move, providing for you financially. Do your best to stay with what is, not go into fear. Fear is the greatest weapon of control. Don’t forget that.
People say all kinds of things when they feel attacked and afraid. Do your best not to give power to what people say when they are feeling defensive, afraid, attacked. Try to just see. Really see. Do your best not to react.
Right now, today, everything is okay. Now you have a chance to look at the pain that is within you. When your husband was always there, it was easy to see that your pain was caused by your interaction with him. When he is not there, you have the beautiful opportunity to advance spiritually by taking full responsibility for your own pain — seeing it.
As the angels say, “what you are not aware of controls you. When you become aware of something, it begins to lose control over you.”
The problem is where the pain is. This is a universal truth.
This is a beautiful time for you, an opportunity for expansion and freedom.
I trust that you and your husband will be able to work everything out in a way that serves both of you and your family. Old patterns are being broken. Ego will resist that. Be patient, loving, and kind with yourselves and each other as you work to overcome the feelings of fear, pain, and limitation. You can do it! There is no enemy.
What is beautiful to remember is that even as human beings fight against each other, each of you has an angel who holds you in the light. Angels always work together. When you can attune to your angel, you are attuning to the angel of everyone. This is because angels serve only God’s will, and so angels exist in harmony, even while we exist in conflict.
Love,
Indira
Dearest -----
You have made the physical separation from your husband, now you must make the psychological separation, which can only happen inside you. For so long you have defined yourself in relation to your husband. Over time, that became a definition that was painful to you, and you sought to remove yourself from that pain.
Stay clear that the ego will seek to continue to keep you in pain. That is what ego does. Ego is a pain machine.
Watch the issues of boundaries. Instead of constantly saying that he is overstepping your boundaries, simply, clearly state what you want. To yourself. To him. I’d just leave out the word boundaries, if you can.
Boundaries can be an offensive and defensive word. You needed to use it when you were making your move and getting stronger. Now you can just be an adult and clearly state - "This is what I want. This is what I choose. This is what I am doing. I do not want that. I do not choose that. Not right now, please. Maybe later. NO. Yes."
These are all good statements for you to consider. You can just say, no. You can say, not now. You can say, no, thank you. You can say, I don’t want to. You can say, Can you please tell me what you mean, because I don’t understand. You can say, yes. You can say, I need time to think about that. You can say, I can’t answer that right now. You can say, I am feeling uncomfortable and need to be with my own energy right now, so I can deal with my feelings.
These are good “I” statements. You will find your own, the more you turn within.
“I” statements will help you go within to find out what you are feeling and thinking. “I” statements tend to be less combative, less offensive, less defensive, less confusing.
Keep in mind, you both love your children. So far your husband has been supportive of your move, providing for you financially. Do your best to stay with what is, not go into fear. Fear is the greatest weapon of control. Don’t forget that.
People say all kinds of things when they feel attacked and afraid. Do your best not to give power to what people say when they are feeling defensive, afraid, attacked. Try to just see. Really see. Do your best not to react.
Right now, today, everything is okay. Now you have a chance to look at the pain that is within you. When your husband was always there, it was easy to see that your pain was caused by your interaction with him. When he is not there, you have the beautiful opportunity to advance spiritually by taking full responsibility for your own pain — seeing it.
As the angels say, “what you are not aware of controls you. When you become aware of something, it begins to lose control over you.”
The problem is where the pain is. This is a universal truth.
This is a beautiful time for you, an opportunity for expansion and freedom.
I trust that you and your husband will be able to work everything out in a way that serves both of you and your family. Old patterns are being broken. Ego will resist that. Be patient, loving, and kind with yourselves and each other as you work to overcome the feelings of fear, pain, and limitation. You can do it! There is no enemy.
What is beautiful to remember is that even as human beings fight against each other, each of you has an angel who holds you in the light. Angels always work together. When you can attune to your angel, you are attuning to the angel of everyone. This is because angels serve only God’s will, and so angels exist in harmony, even while we exist in conflict.
Love,
Indira
Thursday, May 23, 2013
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